Hello, reader!
Today, I want to share a story that connects two very different worlds: stock trading and client meetings. At first glance, these might seem unrelated—but when you strip them down, they both revolve around one key principle: emotional neutrality and data-driven decision making.
Let me walk you through my day.
It started strong. I woke up early, hit the gym, and got ready for market open. I executed a trade according to plan, but it turned red. That didn’t shake me, because I followed my rules. The chart setup didn’t fulfill my criteria, and I cut it. No regrets—just clean execution. This is the level of neutrality I’ve worked hard to build in my trading. I no longer chase green days emotionally; I follow data, structure, and risk control.
But then came two client meetings.
The first one didn’t go as expected. I had prepared a presentation for a prospect based on what I thought they were looking for—but the call revealed they had a completely different objective. I was off-target. It was awkward. My preparation was good—but misaligned. And in hindsight, I had become emotionally attached to the outcome. Just like holding onto a stock that no longer has momentum, I tried to salvage the moment instead of cutting and reassessing.
The second meeting followed shortly after, and I brought that emotional residue with me. I tried to prove myself. I overshared. I was looking for validation, not alignment. I turned into the equivalent of a trader chasing a rebound trade right after a loss.
This day reminded me of a truth I live by in the market, and now I’m applying it to business:
"Emotions distort clarity. Neutrality protects vision."
I realized that just as I journal before a trade to set my frame and define my entry and exit, I need to start journaling before a meeting. Not just what I want to present—but:
- Who is this client?
- What am I solving?
- What data am I responding to?
- How do I stay in my frame regardless of the outcome?
Every heartbeat matters—especially in business. And I don’t want to waste mine preparing for trades or clients that aren’t aligned.
So here’s my takeaway, and maybe it’ll resonate with you: If you’re in business, approach your meetings like trades. Prepare with clarity. Show up neutral. Don’t chase. Respond to structure, not emotion.
Until next time, stay sharp, stay neutral, and let your systems guide your success.